37d6e8c88a I have that book but never quite got through it. Sex is not a basic human need. There is nothing wrong with letting your husband lead and you and the children follow as long as he is leading you with Godly decisions. We go by the principles of love and respect in marriage. I know most of the replies on here are from women, so I hope I havent come to the wrong place. If I had closed my account without asking him, and then made the announcement, wouldnt that in itself have been controlling? I have not mentioned anything about this to him since that conversation and all has seemed well. I feel we are doing so bad that IF we had the money, I would have left and moved out awhile ago. But, the book that I started out with 5 years ago that got me on this journey was a book that is great for husbands and wives to read together, Love and Respect by Dr.
I have to come to terms with the fact that (A) to a large extent, Ive tolerated the negative pattern in my marriage a lot longer than I should have (about 15 years), and (B) I have to stop looking for an easy way out. There are times in your life when you get to be selfish. And yes that is my favorite way of showing intimacy. I think we need to use some Godly wisdom in all of this. But if you dont confront her, she is probably not going to see her sin. All it takes is mutual respect of each others feelings during the slow times and doing other things outside of the bedroom to remind each other how much you love and appreciate each other. Have we annoyed each other over that time? You bet! I can give you a list of the things I do that can drive my husband crazy. again, we generally get along and go to bed in silence. Mack February 3, 2014 at 12:32 pm # If Im going to be perfectly honest, Im a bit teary eyed after having read through this post.
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